FB ~ Fuck Buddy
MLTR ~ Multiple Long Term Relationships
Harem ~ a social group of females accompanied or followed by one fertile male who denies other males access to the group.
Just to clear it up for you.
Everyone does have limits, but the majority of those limits are self imposed. If you go through life believing your ugly and you'll never get a girl, then you won't, and those experiences will reinforce that belief. Even if a girl is interested in you, you'll dismiss it because of that belief.
It isn't a matter of attractive vs unattractive in the sense of looks, looks are just a foot in the door, it's the extra social experience that an attractive person gets that gains them more success with women. A male who has an abundance mentality, or has less validation as a result from females, and as a byproduct of that, less reactivity towards a female will be more attractive then somebody who believes that his life is defined by a female finding him attractive.
As to actually answer OP, you have to at least make an attempt,
You miss 100% of the shot's you don't take.
And who gives a fuck if a girl rejects you, it isn't as devastating as it's made out to be. It's a survival instinct carried on from thousands of years ago when we lived in tribes, and when one girl would reject you, the entire tribe would know, resulting in your genes being cut out of existence. This is hardly the case now, as we live in a world of >3 billion women, and no one really gives a fuck if XYZ rejected you.
It's more embarrassing to go alone then to get rejected 4-5 times before you find someone worth taking.
@Sooc;
You're so cool man, I just wish i could be like you. You're just like, my hero, because you're so awesome. But really, you're a chode.
You ever seen a guy enter a place and just fucking own it? Ever wonder how he did it? Wonder how he does it?
Ever see a guy that encapsulates a girl in every word he says, and she just sits there blatantly attracted to him?
Ever gotten a same day lay off a girl that you've met on the street?
Ever had a threesome in a tent?
I've done it, I teach how to do it. You have a say when you're not being ignorant of how shit works. I understand that your probably so wrapped up in protecting your ego to notice shit, but if you look at conversations, learn NLP, learn how to work out body language, a whole pattern fucking emerges. It's not the looks, it's the personality, it's the attractive lifestyle, it's having fun, giving value, being in the moment, being unreactive.
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@Emag
Haha, opinion is opinion. I've been teaching day game workshops across Australia for about 6 months with good success.
HAHA.
Gaymers getting serious
confidence, not cocky
funny, not an idiot
sweet, not a chesse,
open ended questions, not closed.
eye contact, don't look distracted
good body lanuage, face towards her.
gl all the best with it, you be fine.
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